Just a few stories about Patrick and our New England Journey

 So I realized the other day I have never posted any stories about Patrick.  Patrick is a student I met when I was working at Presby Hall during the construction phase.  He was one of the very first students to sign a lease for the building.   He was 15 when he first called.  Yes that's correct, 15 and about to be a freshman at the UI.  And did I mention he was from Bejing China?  True story.  Can you imagine your parents sending you to a foreign country when you were 15 to go to college? 

Patrick would call our office about once a week the year before school started.  I think part of the reason he called was to begin to make friends in the US.  And I also think he wanted to learn more about the culture.  I found him fascinating.

Patrick comes to the USA

About a month before school started he called to let me know he was coming to school early and wanted to move in the dorm.  However...the dorm would not be finished in time.  His parents proceeded to book him a room in the Red Roof Inn near the mall.  The primary reason for coming early was that China was hosting the Olympics (2008) and air fare was ridiculously expensive.  

I told him to tell his mother a 15 year old, in his first two weeks in America, could not stay in the Red Roof Inn.  So I invited him to stay at my place.  We had a blast.  I made sure all of the task items like getting a phone, registering for class and attending cultural adjustment programs all happened, but I also had the privilege of  learning about his culture and sharing some of "America's finest" with him.  Papa Dels Pizza, Legend's Fish Sandwiches, American Chinese food, and "salad" were all fun explorations.  We became fast friends as a result. School started, he moved into Presby and we touched base periodically during the semester.  I'm pretty sure he joined our family for Thanksgiving and I know he became close friends with my step mom and sisters during his first year.

Patrick tours the USA

After he first year in school Patrick decided to transfer to Northwestern.  NU is on a slightly different calendar than the University of Illinois.  As a result Patrick had to move out of Presby in early August and couldn't get into his new dorm in Evanston until mid September.  One day he calls and asks me if he can store some things at my place and then asked, "what are you doing between Aug 15 and Sept 15. As is happened I was planning to visit my sister in Boston.  Patrick asked if he could come along.  Why not?

We expanded the tour to include the Northeast corridor, adding New Hampshire, Vermont and Maine.  Off we went.  An hour into the trip Patrick calls his mother.  Two hours, he calls her again.  Hour three, another call.  I ask him what's up with his mom.  He tells me that him mother is paranoid about us driving to Boston.  She fears in the roads are terrible.  I laugh and he explains, in China the roads deteriorate quickly as you leave major cities.  People don't drive across the country, they fly or take the train.  Patrick wants to know how the roads will be all the way to Boston.  When I assure him the road are great throughout America he calls his mother again and says, "this is the last call, American roads are fine." 

Our first stop is in Pennsylvania.  My family is based near Erie PA and I thought it would be fun to visit.  This is Patrick's first "rural" engagement and he totally enjoyed spending time with my cousin's kids, Drew and Brandon.  We walked the back roads, got into the fields and he learned about farming in America. His grandmother lived in rural China so he could totally relate.

My Aunt Peggie prepared a wonderful feast, including a rather large pork tenderloin.  The table was full of fresh veggies and lots of sides.  We stuffed it all down.  Now Peggie is one of America's finest pie bakers and tonight there were two freshly baked pies waiting.  She asks Patrick if he is ready for a slice or two.  He politely says yes.  Then she asked if he wanted ice cream.  We all tell him it's a must.

Peggie brings out the pie, apple I believe, Patrick takes a bite and a huge smile crossed his face..  He says this is the best thing he has ever eaten.  Here is what we didn't know.  In China a pie is often a meat pie.  Patrick thought Peggie was bringing him a meat pie with ice cream.  While he politely agreed to eat it, his stomach was turning over.  He was pleasantly surprised, and by the way, he had a few more slices during our stay.  

Off to Maine

We decided to add on New England to our trip.  We stopped in New Hampshire and hiked in the White Mountain Area.  I decided to take the back roads through New England, leading to the most beautiful drive I have ever taken.  So many small, charming, towns to enjoy.  I particularly loved going through Bartlett New Hampshire as it made me think about my favorite all time tv show, The West Wing.  

We stopped in Bar Harbor, Maine. Acadia is an amazing National Park with stunning views of the ocean.  We hiked through the woods and drove the coastline.  Another day we walked through Bar Harbor.  This town attracts many cruise ships and is filled with little gift shops and nick knack stores.  Of course I love ice cream so we stopped at Ben and Jerry's.  Patrick had only had soft serve ice cream in his life so this was another new experience.  He asked me to order for him and I chose "Cherry Garcia."  His smile grew with every taste.  "This is the most amazing thing ever."   He thought this was just a New England thing.  I told him Ben and Jerry's was in every grocery store and most gas stations in America.  "I love this country!"  

Our last stop in Bar Harbor was to a dock on the south east side of the peninsula.  There was a restaurant serving lobster fresh from the boat.  We picked a big one from a huge tank and a dozen clams as well. The chefs cooked it all in front of us.  We ate this incredible meal on a picnic table at the dock.

Finally Boston

The goal of this trip was to visit my sister in Boston.  I love Boston, the history, the food, the coastline.  It is one of my favorite places in the USA.  We walked the Liberty Trail, ate at a few restaurants downtown and saw the sights.  And of course we visited with my sister and her family.  Patrick was a huge hit with my nephews, no surprise here of course.  

One evening my sister asked if we could leave earlier the next day on our sightseeing trip.  The preschool representatives were coming for a home visit, share time with the family, and check out the surroundings.  On the train to downtown Patrick offers, "Geez what if Kris and family don't do well in the interview?  Will that mean that Arlo, (my nephew) can rule out Harvard?"   We had a great laugh.

Patrick is a special young man.  A have enjoyed learning about the culture and comparing stories.  He graduated from Northwestern with straight A's, spent some time working in Chicago, started his own company, and is now working on his masters at Harvard. 

He promised me a guided tour to China some day.  I'm still waiting.........

 

Traveling through New England

 (So I forgot I wrote a story about my trip to New England for the local paper, here is a reprint)

Vacations aren't exactly my specialty. I take a day or two a year and attend a convention or workshop somewhere in the United States or Mexico. I'm good at attending and participating in travel plans other people make.

Planning my own trips tends to be a little more frantic. Real vacations with no meetings to attend or workshops to facilitate are few and far between.

When I finally commit to stepping back and enjoying life, I tend to overplan, as was the case for my most recent excursion. I planned a 2,700-mile car trip to Owensboro, Ky., via North Conway, N.H., not necessarily the most direct route, but it worked out just fine.

Seasoned vacationers know New England in the fall is a spectacular visual experience. The variety and magnitude of the seasonal changes are overwhelming in their beauty.

However, New England vacations lend themselves to every season of the year. We chose late summer, when it's warm enough to enjoy all of the outdoor activities offered and late enough to enjoy reduced rates and smaller crowds.

North Conway was our destination, and we stayed at the Cranmore Mountain Lodge, 859 Kearsarge Road. The lodge is tucked back into the forest and has basketball and tennis courts, ski slopes, swimming, fishing ponds and picnic areas for guests. Breakfast is included in the rates and features a French chef preparing omelets, pancakes, homemade sausage and French toast. Babe Ruth stayed frequently at the Cranmore, and his pictures adorn the comfortable sitting rooms.

Plan to stay in North Conway several days and stroll the downtown streets lined with more than 200 shops featuring arts, crafts, locally made clothing and even a few old-fashioned general stores. It is easy to spend a day or more enjoying the wares of the local merchants. As an added bonus, there was a local art fair with artists lining the streets the weekend we arrived.

There are more outdoor activities than you can possibly take part in during one vacation. Between the Saco River meandering throughout the North Country and the White Mountains, you can enjoy kayaking, canoeing, hiking, mountain climbing, biking, fishing and camping.

At least 50 well-maintained hiking trails are spread throughout the area, with maps leading you to starting points for each one. Trails range from ½ mile to 7 miles and are challenging and yet manageable by even the most novice climber.

We chose the Arethusa Falls hike in the Crawford Notch State Park, 1.4 miles leading to a 200-foot waterfall. The slope was steep at first and then ascended through open hardwoods and mountain streams.

Many climbers bring picnic lunches, their families and even their dogs on the trip. Arethusa Falls is spectacular and worth every bead of sweat shed.

Another outdoor spectacle is the Swift River's Lower Falls. About 15 minutes from North Conway, Lower Falls features gradual drop-offs of the lower mountain streams. Kids can slide down the falls and swim in the pools at the base. There are plenty of picnic areas nearby with changing rooms and pavilions. The Albany Covered Bridge is just a short ride down the river from the falls.

The focal point of the White Mountains is Mount Washington. The summit of Mount Washington should be experienced by every traveler. You have several choices for reaching the summit – hiking, driving or riding on a train or shuttle bus. Not an easy climb at 6,288 feet, the peak is the highest point on the East Coast.

The brave at heart can drive their cars up the narrow path. You can also ride the Conway Scenic Railroad train to the top or, if you prefer to have someone else do the driving, there are van tours that leave from the lodge every 20 minutes. We took the van and were glad we did! The tour guide explained the history of the area and the mountain.

The summit is cold, more than 40 degrees colder than ground level. Fortunately, there is a cafe and souvenir stand at the top with hot chocolate and long-sleeved shirts.

The highest recorded wind speed in America, 231 mph, occurred at the top of Mount Washington, which is easy to believe as the winds were over 50 mph the day we were there. This is a must-see site with views of the ocean to the east and the Great Lakes to the west. Sunrises are glorious, and sunsets, which we saw, are spectacular.

Todd Salen is a real estate agent from Champaign.

Travels with Nathan

 I know I might have written about Nathan Kelsey before.  I can't remember how long ago I wrote about his stories, and well, I think I'll just tell his story again.

I first met Nathan when we was a pledge in my fraternity.  Idealistic is an understatement.  Nathan is an open minded, trusting soul.  He had an idea he wanted to host a golf outing as a chapter fund raiser.  In my days with Pepsi I had been involved in a large number of golf events so I was pleased he was coming to me for advice.  

Now Nathan was a caddie in high school.  I grew up close to Olympia Fields Country Club, site of the 2004 US Open and many time host of the Western Open, now the BMW Open. Many of my friends either caddied or worked on the grounds keeping crew, so I totally understood it took a special breed of person to caddie.  I mean you need to carry a heavy bag or two for a couple of miles, and constantly listen to old men talk about how good they almost are.   So the fact that Nathan caddied told me he was a man of character.  This is very true. 

Nathan picked my brain for the best course in the area, best practices for a golf outing, and best way to reach and register alums.  He set up a terrific event, raising several thousand for the Steve Acheson Scholarship, a fraternity scholarship near and dear to my heart.  Perhaps the best thing he did was reach out to Jim Acheson and invite him to the event.  This was over 10 years ago and Jim has stayed involved in the chapter largely due to Nathan's invitation. 

Nathan and I became fast friends, brothers and golf partners.  We both love to play and he loves bending my ear with stories.  As you will see, he was a remarkable young man who lives life to the fullest.

Soon after the golf outing our national fraternity had a convention scheduled for New Orleans in the summer of 2006.  Nathan wanted to attend the convention, and I was happy to have him ride along. Naturally we planned to stop to play golf on the way to New Orleans and played a few rounds in the Big Easy as well.

I was director of Philanthropy for the national fraternity at the time and had scheduled a community service project with Habitat for Humanity in their musicians village. The build was the day before the convention, so we needed to get there a day early.  Nathan told me he had never volunteered for a community service project before.  It was about 100 degrees, sun beating down, and here is Nathan working in the framing of the roof on one of the houses.  He met the soon to be owner of the house and had lunch with him.  Nathan's direction in life literally changed that day. 

The convention ended and we were heading home. First we dropped a brother off at the airport and then headed out on the highway destined for Champaign.  Nathan was on fire, so charged with the experience of serving others.  He was talking about 100 miles a minute. About 3 hours into the drive I asked Nathan if the surrounding looked right?  I didn't remember a bridge we were crossing.  He said yes and we continued. Shortly thereafter we saw a sign for Beaumont Texas.  Opps, we went the wrong way.  There are two ways to get to Champaign from Beaumont, drive to Dallas and head north, or return to New Orleans and retrace our path.  We chose the New Orleans route.  Our 11 hour trip turned into 17 hours and we were both a little fried when we arrived.  But...we had an amazing conversation.

When Nathan graduated from college he joined the Peace Corp in Africa.  I was not surprised.

A few years ago Nathan married a beautiful physician.  In the wedding announcement she mentioned she was attracted to Nathan because of his time in the Peace Corp.  I thought, you owe me brother!  If  I hadn't taken you to New Orleans, you would have never planted the seeds for his servant heart, and he would have missed out on the wonderful wife.

We still get together occasionally to play golf. And he lives in one of my favorite cities in America, Boston.  

Lou Henson - The man who painted Champaign Urbana Orange

Illinois basketball coach Lou Henson passed away this past weekend.  I am honored to have been a very small part of his story.  Our paths crossed many times over the years starting with my freshman year, his very first season as coach at the University of Illinois.  Let me take a minute to share a few stories:

Orange Krush - I think I actually first met Lou during my sophomore year.  As a freshman I had season tickets and watched nearly every home game.  Audie Mathews played for the Illini back then and I had played against Audie in high school.  I would catch the games, watch practice and say hello to Audie and Coach Les Wothke who I knew from my high school days.  Les and my high school coach were friends and had coached together at Argo and Rich East.  Les was one of Lou's assistants.

Sophomore year we invited Les and Lou to come by and talk at my fraternity.  Lou was starting a student cheering section, similar to football's Block I and was enlisting members.  I was certainly up for it as I loved to watch basketball and 5 or so members of the fraternity signed on to Orange Krush.   By now I had started officiating and couldn't get enough.  In Lou's first year there was no one on the floor except the team, the officials, and the scorekeepers.  With the addition of Orange Krush things changed in year two.  I think there were maybe 100 of us on the floor.  Great seats, court side and encouraged to bring our best enthusiasm to each game.

The band soon joined us, I think year in 3.  I was an active and hell raising member.  I yelled at the teams, the officials and the fans who were sitting around not cheering.  Orange Krush was to become one of the premier student sections in the country.  Numbering over 2000 now, the group is truly a difference maker for the team and for the community as they fund raise for priority points in the club.  The energy and enthusiasm at State Farm Center was Lou's vision.

Senior year Hawaii trip - Lou invited John Aymond, a friend from IFC and a member of ATO, and me
to join the team in Hawaii as our graduation trip.  What a trip!  Lou let us sit behind the bench and as we won the tourney, beating eventual National Champion Louisville while we were at it.  I'll never forget the time spent traveling around the island, eating great food and getting to know Lou and especially Mary on this trip.  I would write an article about Mary for the student newspaper later that year.  I came to appreciate how Mary made sure Lou had everything he needed to be successful.   She is a remarkable woman, perhaps the greatest "assistant coach" in NCAA history.

Detroit scouting - I had gotten to know Bob Hull well during the trip to Hawaii.  Bob coordinated scouting for Lou and was an assistant coach.  In the early 80's there was no ESPN and no Fed EX.  Lou and Bobby built a network of scouts in the Big Ten cities.  Lou had perhaps the most extensive catalog of college basketball tapes in America.  I'm certain he had tapes of 1000's of games and would watch and make notes on all of them.  I had moved to Detroit to start work for Proctor and Gamble.  Bobby asked me to be the Michigan scout then sent me a huge beta max, lots of tapes and shipping boxes to send tapes.  I would tape games from Detroit TV for Michigan, Michigan State and even Ohio State as their games were broadcast on Toledo TV and I could get that at my house. I easily sent over 30 tapes a season to Lou and Bobby.

I would tape a game, then drive to downtown Detroit the next day, put the tape on a bus to Chicago and then it would be transferred to a Champaign bus in Chicago.  Same day service!  In exchange Lou invited me to sit on the bench and stay with the Illini on the road for the teams I "scouted".  I had four great years on the bench at Michigan State, Michigan and Ohio State.

And when I came to Champaign Lou would take care of me as well with tickets. One year, 1983, we were playing Kentucky on Dec. 23.  Kentucky played Michigan State on Dec 21 and Lou wanted the tape as soon as possible.  I taped it and started heading to Champaign right after the game, arriving at Lou's house at about 2 AM December 22.  This was the only time I ever saw the Lou "do" not in perfect shape.  The next day one of the worst storms ever hit Champaign.  I was stuck there for Christmas, but did get to watch the Illinois Kentucky game from the first row.

Later that season Lou invited me to join the team in Bloomington for the Indiana game.  Sitting on the bench there was one of my most memorable Illini moments.  In those days Bobby Knight and Lou were still best of friends. They would arrive in town early and often the coaches and wives would head out for a meal.   I will never forget seeing the two of them argue at the shoot around about "who the worst official in the Big 10 was."  A few years later they would have some major issues and I don't believe they ever reunited.

Also later in the same season Lou invited me to Lexington for the NCAA regional final.  I was witness to the famous game where the officials blew a call in the last minute, giving Kentucky the win and a trip to the NCAA Final Four.  This would be the game that would change NCAA hosting forever as the home team never again would host at their own arena.

Illini moments -  I would have the ultimate pleasure to work with Lou and the DIA during his final years at Illinois.  I was working baseball primarily but also working with football and basketball marketing.  Lou loved anyone who would be working to fill the stands and always said yes to all of our ideas.  Some ideas we added back then, the County Market Grocery Delivery Game, t-shirt cannons, and spin on a bat and run to the baseline.  The scoreboard in those days was very small so we always tried to find things that would involve "C" section.

One regret, for Midnight Madness in 1992, Halloween night, we asked Lou to get in a casket and be wheeled in.  He was dressed like Dracula.  Unfortunately a few days later his son Lou Jr was killed in an auto accident.  Attending the funeral with Lou Jr in another casket was just too bizarre for me.

But everyone who knew Lou knew what a great coach and GREAT MAN he was.  He always had a smile, always wanted to know how you were doing and always an encouraging word. 

Inspiring fighter - During my cancer treatments I would run into Lou and Mary at the Carle Cancer Center.  He was the consummate fighter of cancer.  I had 45 rounds of chemo over two years.  He had many more over 17 years. I would read and hear about his chemo treatments at the famous Anderson Cancer Center and be in awe of his courage and will to live.  When it was my turn to fight this fight Lou graciously inspired me to live my life and keep fighting. Truly an hero to me.

So I hope everyone wears Orange for awhile in honor of Lou.  Orange has come to mean Illinois Loyalty in Champaign, due almost entirely to Lou's wearing of the Orange jackets at games.

I'm thankful I had a chance to cross paths with this man as well as his lovely wife Mary.  You left a legacy that truly will never be forgotten. 

Silent Saturday, one day away from a miracle

I was watching a Max Lucado sermon last night and he mentioned that today, the Saturday between Good Friday and Easter is called Silent Saturday.  I had not heard that phrase before.  For me Silent Saturday is a day that is the most humbling.  I'm reminded of the disciples of Jesus, who on this day, just one day after the crucifixion, must have wondered if this incredible man they had been following the past three years was the real deal or not. 

Can you imagine spending the time with Jesus, listening to his words, seeing his miracle.... it must have been superhero like.  I'm certain I would have thought he was indeed immortal.  Shoot he walked on water, he brought people back to life, he healed the sick, he did it all.  

And then he died.  And they carried him to a tomb and buried him.  I'm sure I would have been silent as well on this Saturday.  How could I possibly face my friends and family.  Don't you know some would have been trying to convince me all along to come home and get back to work.  And now my leader was gone forever.

So when I think of the silence of this Saturday I'm reminded that no matter how low I might feel at any given time, no matter how hopeless things might seem, I may be just a day away from the greatest miracle in my life.  

Isn't that what happened with Jesus?  The disciples, his family, his followers, were totally disheartened.  And then in one day the world changed forever.

Hang onto that thought as we work through this virus.  We are all in a very tough space.  But the world will change again.  Maybe tomorrow, maybe in a week, maybe next year.  But it will change.

And when it does, we can all celebrate together 

Jule's Essay for Boarding School

Jule's Essay for Boarding school
(Jules is my nephew.  I'm humbled)

Describe a person you admire or who has influenced you a great deal:

Many people have influenced me but one of the most important is my mom’s brother, Todd.  He has taught me the values of positivity, hard work and consistency. Todd has become a second father to me.  
Todd taught me the value of positivity. In 2016, he was diagnosed with Stage IV cancer.  He did 6 months of the most aggressive chemotherapy, which had no impact, and then did an experimental drug trial.   Miraculously, after 4 months of this trial, he had no cancer. I attribute his success against cancer to his positive attitude.  Todd is always grateful, always smiling. I remember visiting him in the hospital over Christmas and he was cracking jokes and making ME feel good.  Todd taught me that half the battle is my frame of mind and with the right attitude I can accomplish anything.

Todd taught me the value of hard work.  His day job is a commercial real estate broker but he also produces regional theater musicals, he’s president of his state fraternity chapter and he’s a deacon of his church.  What Todd is really known for is his mentorship. When he was sick, men who he had mentored over the years came from all over the country to support him. Even now, in the middle of his cancer fight, he’s actively mentoring.   Watching him work so hard and have such a big impact, reminds me that I am capable more.  When I am losing confidence on the football field, Todd is in my ear telling me to push myself and work harder. When my grades are slipping in school, he is there, reminding me to study harder, and that my education is the most important part of being a student athlete.  And when I'm going down the wrong path Todd sets me straight and make sure I stay focused.

Todd has taught me the value of consistency. He texts me every day, since I started middle school, to let me know he’s rooting for me.  He did this even during his intense chemo. These check ins make me feel cared for. He shows up every single day, good or bad and that’s taught me that the important things require the discipline of daily affirmation.  Because of his constant presence, Todd has been a part of every big decision I’ve made.
In conclusion, Todd is a second father to me, teaching me the values of positivity, hard work, and consistency.  I can always count on him to keep me focused and on track. Todd has been a big part of my life since I was little, and I know he will play a big part in my decisions in the future.

The Day the world Stopped

Sunday we were cheering an Illini last minute victory over Iowa.  That was just 5 days ago.  Today, Friday the 13th, I keep waiting for the alarm to sound and this dream to end.  Oh how the world has changed.  It has happened so fast.  And I thought I might chronicle this in the event I look back and forget about just how fast the pages can turn.  I intend to have this be a diary of sorts, and add as I go forward.  If you are interested, follow along.  If you don't care, that is ok too.  I just know that I will want to remember some of the details.

This is the third time the world stopped in my lifetime.  1. Kennedy assassination, 2. 9/11 and this in the third.  Some things were important moments where I remember where I was when I heard the news.  The Pope being shot, John Lennon's death, Elvis dying, the Challenger explosion.  I remember those days.  But this is an event that will change the world. 

So the first shot was Tuesday night for me.  The election primaries were that day and the candidates cancelled their celebrations so that the crowd would be safe. In today's world passing up on a chance to be on national tv is unheard of.  I thought, maybe it's the part of the country they are in, but didn't really give it more thought.

Wednesday:

First the NCAA announced they were not going to permit crowds at the tourney this year.  The teams were going to play in empty arenas.  The debate about this filled the day and other conference tournaments added on.  The Big 10 followed suit.  But the big blow came when the NBA announced they were suspending the season as a player was infected.  I worked at the State Farm Center that night, Gabriel Iglesias was performing.  He joked he was surprised this show wasn't cancelled. So was I.

During the day there were emails and posts about universities deciding to offer classes online and end classroom instruction.  Nothing resolved, but a warning to students by the end of the day to take their books and computers home just in case.

There are reports during the day of people buying out all toilet paper and hand sanitizer. I get the sanitizer, but toilet paper?


Thursday

And this day will not be forgotten.  MLB delays opening day,  the NHL cancels the season, the Big 10 and other conferences cancel their tournaments, and then..the NCAA March Madness cancels.  Never did I think this would happen just a week ago.  We all were planning to enjoy the Illini return to post season.  Duke, Northwestern and others began cancelling athletics for the remainder of the year.  Conferences started doing the same.

The Illinois Governor announces no gatherings over 500.  I had punched in to work  "The Price is Right" at State Farm at 6 PM.   6:10, the show was cancelled.  The New York Governor announces the same meaning Broadway will be dark.

The university will shut down.  No spring sports. Ebertfest and the Marathon cancelled.  When will students come back?  No one knows.

Tom Hanks and his wife have the virus, and are in Australia

And by now it's clear that life will not be the same.

Friday

I wake up to read the newspaper.  Churches will be cancelling services.  Our Rotary Club will cancel Monday even though just 12 hours earlier the President sent an email stating it would not cancel.
NASCAR, the PGA, The Masters, all cancelled.  Concerts cancelled, nightclubs closing, not public gatherings

And the paranoia builds.  "Should we go to restaurants ?"  "How about the movies?" I volunteered that night at the CUTC show, Steel Magnolias.  It was a full house, but I sat 6 feet away from others...you never know.  One of the other volunteers was a student at Illinois State.  Their university was shutting down and students needed to make appointments to pick up their stuff as in person classes would not be resuming.

The question of the day, how long will this last?

Saturday
Quiet day.  My first work appointment cancels today.  Will there be more?  I suspect this will affect all businesses in this town.  When the students are not here things slow down.  I don't like this feeling of being home alone.  I feel like this is the holidays again and I don't like the holidays.  I'm wishing a friend or family member will rent a house somewhere and bring us all together to relax and forget about it all.   I'm not excited about missing church tomorrow.  The Governor closed schools for two weeks.  I will be patient.

Sunday
It's disappointing to not be heading to church.  I'm thinking about all the people I love to see and hug every week and I already miss them greatly.  I had an open house today.  About 5 couples came through.  All were concerned about the virus for sure.  I suspect this will be the last open house for awhile.  Mid day the governor announces that bars and restaurants will be closing on Monday for a few weeks.  Drive thru and delivery only.

The YMCA is closing for a couple of weeks.  That is going to be very hard on my brother who works there. It is not the money, but the activity of getting out of the house and seeing people. I am fairly sure that the movie theaters will close soon and that will be a huge blow to him as he goes to a movie or more per week.

The theater company cancelled today's Steel Magnolia performance.  We broke down the set and moved it back to the scene shop.  It will be a project in the next few weeks to finish breaking it down.  We talked about whether there will be a spring or summer show.  I'm feeling like this will be an 8 week or more shutdown.  I hope I'm wrong

One last thing.  Traffic in the city felt like Christmas Day.  Not a lot of cars out.

Monday
Took the dog out for a long walk.  A rainy day today will not help lift peoples spirits  Many businesses are shut down, working from home.  Saw more people out running this morning. I wish I could do the same but my feet/neropathy won't let me.  I'll plan a good walk twice a day.  Some fresh air will be good for both me and the dog.  Rizzo by the way is doing just fine.  I'm really tired fo colder weather.  I'm hoping that at least the weather breaks this week so we can enjoy the time outdoors.

I'm also thinking about projects around the house I need to do.  Maybe some painting and some patching.  I'll think about that this week and maybe pick up some supplies.

Tuesday
Well today was a day I wasn't looking forward to.  Theaters are closed.  I don't mind so much, but my brother will be upset.  He sees a movie every week.  I'll need to show him how to use Redbox.
I took him shopping yesterday.  Everything we needed was in stock, except toilet paper.  He was not happy and even something as minor as that can set him off.  I'm hoping his church small group still meets today.

First day of restaurants being closed.  I feel so bad for all of the folks in the industry.  Please let this only be for two weeks.

No new cases yesterday but many tests are out and waiting for results.  Today is primary day in Illinois.  First time since I was 18 I did not care about an election.  I suspect this may be the beginning of the end for President Trump.  Virus, spiraling economy, etc etc.  I'm not advocating one way or another.  Just speculation.

I talked to June last night.  Ever the optimist. She is surrounded by family and that is a great thing.  I need to remember to reach out to more people.  A neighbor texted me and that was very nice.  She just wanted to make sure I was ok.

My fraternity board is struggling to make the decision to close the house.  The UI sent an email yesterday closing the dorms and sending students home except international students.  (opps, sorry Shirley, residence halls).  I think part of the problem is worry in the fraternity world they won't come back.  Lots of questions to answer. What about rebates for guys not being there?  What about pledges in the middle of their pledgeship?  In the big picture this means nothing.  But, we focus on what we can right

Wednesday 3.19.20

Sold a house today!  Hooray.  I have three on the books to close and I'm happy to have all three.  I could use three more.  What will happen in real estate?  Geez, who knows.  I won't speculate.  The fraternity board finally agreed to close the house.  Move out begins Friday.  Bill Acheson and I went of to pull some trash so the dumpsters would get picked up on Thursday.  That will help a little.

The infection rate keeps going up.  Probably a jump of a third higher today.  Word is it will spike and then level out.  I hope that is true of course.

I'm dealing with the down time ok.  Walking and will walk more.  The movie houses closed.  He will not deal with that well.  But the pace for now while slow is steady.

Thursday 3.20

Came to the office today.  Another great discussion, this time with Allan from Ann Arbor.  He is an optimist and we need those. Had two conference calls with the national fraternity yesterday.  Pledgeship will be suspended or online. They will initiate 6 days after they return to campus.  And officers are to be appointed except the President. The VP will assume the presidency if needed.  And other online or in person training is suspended like risk management.  The national convention is still on.  They don't need to make that call until mid May.

What will this look like come August?  Good question.  There will be lots of house corporations struggling to pay the bills, ours included.

Fund raising will be needed to pay some debt, or some forgiveness from the banks

Friday 3.21
Word is there will be a state shut down soon. I'm not surprised.  I don't know what else you can do except get people to stay away from each other.  The trends are not terrible yet in Illinois.  Any deaths are bad, but we are at 4 in the state. Cases continue to go up state wide but not bad locally
My niece has the virus. That is two in the family and I suspect there will be more. She is in Chicago so I have not been around her.

California shut down I heard and New York has as well.  I don't know how you can control it in a big city if you don't.  At least here in Champaign we are spread out and don't need to be around each other.

The students start moving out of the chapter house today.  That is a good thing.  I hope we keep in organized and stress free.

My close friend Pastor Jim McClarey started posting a daily encouragement video.  It is inspiring
https://www.facebook.com/PekinFirst/videos/514783972570636/

Tuesday 3.23
Oh my how things have changed.  I spent Saturday at the chapter house with my friend Bill and also Mike helping to move the process forward.  We mostly hung stuff and made the place look a little better.  The stay at home policy went into effect Saturday at 5.  Traffic thinned but certainly did not go away.  Several businesses have decided to close.  Starbucks is closed.  Who would have thought that isn't essential?  Ha, I imagine there are suffering addicts craving coffee all over town.

Other than boredom I'm not suffering.  My brother is struggling.  He watched too much television and the news is mostly bad on the networks.  There have been 3 cases in Champaign County.  I'm sure it would have been worse if there were students.  The Olympics were postponed a year today.  Athletes would have lost a lot of training time and just yesterday Canada pulled out.

Is the social distancing working?  Who knows?  It's the new normal for sure.  I'll start some cleaning projects in house soon.  I'm hoping for a nice day to wash windows.

I've been good about walking twice a day.  I may add a third time if the weather warms up.  Oh there was snow over the weekend.  Grrr....We all need some warmer weather so going outside is pleasent.


Thursday 3.26

Champaign cases are up to 8.  The state added 350 cases yesterday.  The numbers are not turning down yet.  But it has only been a week of shut in.  Hard to imagine just two weeks ago I was punching in at the State Farm Center for a cancelled show

I went to the scene shop yesterday for a few hours to start taking apart the set from Steel Magnolias.  It was great to do something different.  I'm going to try and do something for two hours everyday.  I'm not optimistic the shelter at home will end in a week.  I have 2 closings in 3 weeks.  I hope they don't get postponed or cancelled.  So far so good.

Lots of great inspirational messages online from our church family.  Listened to Sheryl Palmer and Cory Blackwell last night and Eric Wrigley today.  It's just great to hear some positive thoughts.

Adam Smith, a Phi Psi alum, is on Jeopardy and he won last night.  Nice story in the paper today about him  I sent a note to Jim Rossow and he assigned the story.  Adam was always a smart, introspective kid.   He asked lots of questions all the time.  Some good news in this storm.


Friday 3.27

Wow big rise in cases yesterday.  Almost 700 in the state but none in CU.  There are 10 total in our area.  I don't know if there are any in the hospital.  I don't think so.  Dr. Brent Reifsteck has been posting online daily about the virus.  What a great source of information.  I first met Brent when I produced Les Mis with Stephen Fiol.  He has a nack for communication in this crisis.  I have learned so much from his posts, fact vs fiction.

Another day yesterday at the scene shop.  I will get this set put away in another few days.  Truly it is a great stress reliever.  Cloudy and rainy today.  The temps are inching up.  Heard on tv last night the virus may slow down in the hotter weather.  I don't know if that is true or not.

I'm thinking Oh Boy it's a weekend tomorrow.  But .... what will be different?  Not much.  I have been streaming West Wing the past few weeks.  It just is such a wonderful show and it takes my mind off reality.  The last season is almost over.....I need to find a new show.

I have a to do list.  I would love to paint some.  If my 4 houses on the board now all close I'll think about it.  It's the money for the paint I don't want to spend.

Tuesday 3.31

After a beautiful day yesterday today is a bit cold.  I want to put the winter coat away.   It was a very uneventful weekend.  I finished my work a the scene shop and now need another project.  Upstairs bedrooms here I come!   So far all of my closings are on track.  I was a bit worried yesterday as one of my clients is a teacher and who knows when they will be back to work.

There was some interesting information online that this should peak on April 15 or so and then fall off.  I can only pray.

A wonderful sermon by Corey Blackwell at Faith UMC Sunday.  He talked about how people are stepping up and being heroes.  Delivering groceries, watching out for neighbors, calling the lonely.  This is another moment where the world comes together.  I hope is lasts awhile

Struggling with my brother.  He just doesn't understand the danger of going to the store or restaurant daily.  I try to get him to stock up, but truly he is an eating machine.  I will just need to send more food for him and pack it in.

Wednesday 4.8

I can't believe I haven't posted for a week.  Time seems to be just floating by.  There is some work to do, I have 4 closings on the books and I'm pushing them forward the best that I can.  I showed a young couple some properties on Saturday.  They are in the market to buy sometime in the next 10 months.  He is a farmer so needless to say he is busy!  That is a good thing

Today is supposed to be the worst day for New York.  Illinois' projected worst day is next week.  The numbers just seem unreal.  Are thousands of people really dying everyday?  I can't fathom.  But so far I'm feeling fine.

I think I got through to my brother on the danger.  He had a doctor's appointment yesterday and on the car ride I emphasized that this we are in a rough 10 day period with lots of bad news coming.  He hasn't been to a store in 5 days and I call that a minor victory.

Easter week. I'm reminded this was Christ's worst week as well.  Something to think about for sure.  I'm staying somewhat busy.  I hope to finish my bedroom/bathroom by Friday and then start a newer project. The weather has been beautiful the past three days so being outside is a bit of a priority.

I'm lonely and need a hug badly.  Another time when being single is not a plus.

Thursday 4.9

It's amazing how inefficient I get when my schedule drops down to nothing.  I have been doing some inside projects, painting a bedroom, fixing some holes in the wall made by "puppy" Rizzo a year ago and doing some cleaning.  I am trying to spend at least two hours a day on a project.  As we have at least 3 more weeks of stay at home that is a few hours.

I understand the feelings about aunts/uncles, etc.  I have 3 aunts and two uncles now.  I had 10 of each at one point.  I can't imagine a world without any of them.  They have all had an impact on my life and I have loved visiting all of them over the years.  And while I have lots of cousins I only keep up with 10 or so.  We are truly getting older ....

Sunday is the "peak day" for Illinois.  We should begin to move downward next week.  I can't even imagine what the world will look like until there is a vaccine. Will we gather in large groups before then?  Will we be a diligent on social distancing?  Who knows?  Not me for sure.  But without a vaccine I suspect it will be rough.

I applied for all of the government grants.  In total enough to live on through July or so.  Add the 4 closings I have in the pipeline and I should make it through the summer. e.  

I find myself looking forward to tv show nights again.  Wednesday night, Survivor....can't wait.  Monday night, Better Call Saul, can't wait.  etc.  Our paper interviewed lots of folks in the entertainment world and asked for "streaming ideas."  Aaron Sorkin suggested Episodes now on Netflix.  I started watching and it's a fun show for sure.  But I'm trying to limit my tv time and mix it with reading, walking, etc. 

Sunday is Easter....I love Maunday Thursday, Good Friday, Easter Sunday.  There will be online services for sure, but this will be different.  I need a hug.....

I am the last person who hasn't watched Tiger King.  I'll catch it soon I think.

It's a bit chilly here today, after a couple of 80 degree days.  Oh well, maybe I'll paint some more.

Saturday 4.11

I totally enjoyed a couple of Good Friday services yesterday.  First a Stations of the Cross program from Faith UMC and then a broadcast by Chris Tomlin and Max Lucado.  Very inspiring.

Today is Silent Saturday.  I had not heard today called that until yesterday.  So true, and more so as we begin week 4 of staying at home.  I am close to finishing another project, master bedroom painted, check.  I'm going to tackle project three maybe starting today or tomorrow.

There is talk now about things not being "normal" in the fall.  No football, etc.  I just want to be back in church on Sunday.  The rest will take care of itself.

I'm staring to think that if school comes back in the fall there maybe a requirement for all students to live in singles.  Don't know exactly why I think that, just seems like a possible solution.

One of my favorite students is coming to town today.  I hope we connect for a chat.

The curve is flattening in NY and in Illinois as well.  California seems to have it under control as well.  Time will tell.

Tuesday 4.14

Still no checks/money transfers from the government.  I'm expecting about $12,000 in monies.  This will be nice.  I have a closing on Friday and hope for another next week.  I picked up two new clients and they are both promising.  I'm just not going to worry about what June or July will look like because I can't control it....right?

I am 99% done with the bedroom painting and started the hallway.  I may have that done by Sunday and then I can start on the first floor.  It does look better for sure.

My brother is seemingly doing better. His new routine is staying home and walking during the day when he can.  I think he is adjusting.  He hasn't been to the store in over a week so that makes me happier.

Easter was different of course.  I listened to three different services online. My friend Bonnie made dinner and I picked it up and brought it home.

Talk is about the vaccine.  I'm thinking more and more things wont' change a lot without some kind of treatment or vaccine.  But then....I'm not a doctor :)

Friday 4.17

Two true gentlemen passes away.  Dick Hyde was the father of one of the players of the UI baseball team I worked with 30 years ago.  He played professional baseball, a submarine pitcher, and a classic story teller.  He always had a good word for me and a smile on his face.  I will remember his enthusiasm for baseball always.

Tom Costello was everyone's friend.  A tireless volunteer, Tom was on many board of directors, giving his time talents and money generously.  He had a sarcastic wit that mirrors my own.  I loved hanging out with Tom and telling stories.

The curve is flattening.   I suspect another month of stay at home.  I'll need another project.  Maybe paint the downstairs.  I hope to about finish the upstairs this weekend.

It's terribly lonely.  I see a few people on walks and several on zoom, but it's not the same.  I need a hug or three.

I had a closing today.  Still waiting for another one to close soon.  The FHA is delaying it due to the appraiser not getting in the house.

I've shown a few houses this week.  Being extra careful for sure.  I have two showings today and one tomorrow.

Monday 4.20

Another Monday but a beautiful day for sure!  Busy weekend. I showed 4 houses to 3 new clients.  I'm glad to see a few new faces.  I also made an offer on a condo, not accepted, but still it was an offer.

I'm trying to teach June, step mother, how to use zoom.  I want to do a zoom family call soon.  No luck yet but I haven't given up yet.

No luck yet on my stimulus check, not sure what is holding it up.  But I did get my SBA grant and I had a closing on Friday.  So I have money in the bank.

May 25 is my prediction for when the state is opened again.  I hope this is true but who knows.  It will be rougher to stay home as the weather gets nicer.  Lots of walks and sunshine I hope.

I'm about two days before I'm done with the upstairs project.  I've painted lots and now I may add another room to paint upstairs.  That will add two days.  I'll shoot for next weekend to finish the top floor.  With another 4 weeks of stay at home expected I will have plenty of time!

I miss my friends and hugs and church and eating at restaurants and feeling like I could go someplace if I wanted to.  But...what can I do.

Two things have to happen for school to come back in the fall.  Testing and vaccine.  I don't see that happening by August.  Maybe the spring.

Tuesday 4.21

No stimulus check yet.  Grrr.  But I hope to get paid for my closing from Friday soon. I have another closing in about two weeks so that will be good.

No new cases in Champaign County for 3 days in a row.  Keep that streak alive!!

Waiting for the Governor to announce the next extension for stay at home. No news yet.

I was on a conference call last night where the moderator said there is a 70% chance that universities will be in in person in the fall.  Hmm..I'm thinking there may be a 30% chance.  Maybe he read his numbers wrong.

Decided to paint bedroom 2.  I may start taking bid to paint other peoples houses :)

Monday 4.27

Ok so we are on lock down for another month.  Oh boy.  It was sort of a normal weekend except I ate something that made my stomach/pancreas flare up. Probably the crunchy peanut butter.

I have been eating very little and mostly soft foods and then guess what?  My doctor called today and my colonoscopy is still on for Wednesday.  Who would have guessed?  So I feel just about prepped already.  I'll stay on soft food and then transition to clear liquids tomorrow.

People in the area are getting upset because they need to follow the rules, primarily because most of the cases are in the Chicago area.  We have had 105 cases here and 5 pass away.  OHHHH...I forgot to say I had a Covid test this morning in prep for my colonoscopy.  It was painful,,,,, they stuck a hockey stick in my nose and twisted it.

I had 4 clients yesterday.  I think all three may buy.  Ok I'm off to a meeting.  I can't wait for June 1.  Oops, I should say American Idol did the show from the contestants homes. That was fun too!

Thursday 4.30

And the results are in from the colonoscopy.   I'm all clear.  Not only was I clear this time, but instead of every 3 years my doc now says I'm good for 5 years.  Now that is a good thing.  So amazing how empty the hospital was.  Only two people there for procedures in digestive health.  I don't know how hospitals can hold out of treating patients.  Normally this part of the hospital is packed.  The governor allows more "elective procedures" starting tomorrow and the hospital is geared up for a May 11 start.

I wish I could say that cases and deaths were trending down.  Just the opposite.  In terms of cases, more testing means more people found to be infected.  The more deaths is just scary.

Tomorrow the news on the future for me career wise.  I will make a decision and share more later.  I love real estate, but selling it part time may be my best option.  I promise to expand on this in the future. 

I need to get back to painting!   I've been lazy the past two days.  I'll do more this weekend I'm sure.

Lots of discussion about what education will look like in higher education.  They are struggling with many things including class size, hard to envision 100 people in Lincoln Hall for a lecture, housing, will there still be triples, doubles etc, and blending delivery, both online and in person offerings.   In the end, I am sure many parents will be reluctant to send their kids away just now.

I need a hug!

May the Fourth be with you

Mondays seem a lot like every other day!  I sold a house over the weekend.  That was a great thing.  And I haven't decided yet on the new position.  What should I do?  I'm afraid if football doesn't come back in the fall that I'll be jumping from one sinking ship to another.

On a more pleasant note, I had the pleasure to spend so real face time with a few of my favorites.  Two of my favorite students, dinner at a distance, my referee buds and my good friend Shirley along with my brother.  It was just so nice to talk.

No real clue when this will slow down.  Cases are up along with more testing.  Deaths are dropping.  Indiana will be opening back up this week.  And East Peoria announced they will open.  Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I just cringe to think what October will look like.  Oh how I wish I would have stayed with a regular company with a salary.

One thing from my dinners this past week, graduating seniors having their job offers withdrawn.  Ouch.

Article today about what the rental/mortgage market will be like after late or no payments in May.
I just don't want to think about it.

Ok enough for now.


May 5

I think I forgot to mention that about half of the states are re-opening.  It's an economy vs virus battle.  Which is worse?  Infections for crashing economy?  Hard to say for sure.

The Voice has gone to the artists singing from home.  So far, so good.

The big discussion, will there be school/football in the.  I can't even begin to predict.  So many smart people say that the schools will open.  I hope they are right.

Zorbas closed.  The gyro restaurant has been in CU for over 40 years.  It will be a tough summer with students gone.  Summer classes are online.

The rumblings begin with students wanting rebates.  Online is not as good as in person.  Well that is probably a good thing as we need in person teaching to be the norm.

May 14

Long time no post.  Mostly because I have been busy...doing not enough.  My painting is nearly done.  One more day max.  It does make the place look better.  I hope to get a haircut today.  Can't wait.  I am in need.  I took the position with the radio station.  Start in two weeks.  I'm ready to be busy again.  It may take some time to get up to speed.

Things in the state, not so good.  Things in Champaign, could be worse.  Still no updates about the future of the university.  Although I was on a fascinating conference call where the future of sports was discussed.  Maybe 25% of the crowd could attend.  Can you hear the echos in the stadium?

Sold two properties and negotiating a third.  I'm ahead of all last year but still concerned about what September will look like.

Delays on many closings.  Grrr.....I'm not the most patient.

I need a hug, a haircut and I need to swim some laps

May 19

Yesterday was just a bad day.  I don't have a lot, but boy when I do sometimes things pile on.  First and foremost I was supposed to teach a class.  I totally zoned out and thought is was today.  Then two closings were delayed.  One just one day, the other may unravel all together.  Add to that two listings I thought I would have, went to other brokers and they sold both in just a few days.  Real estate is like a drug.  You think you have things wrapped up, and then things fall apart.  It is painful for me to write this as I feel like I failed my clients.  I know it's the virus causing the problems, but still it hurts.

So I'll say it, I'm lonely.  I really need a hug or two.  I saw one of my favorite students, now a priest, yesterday and we talked a few minutes.  Geez, I needed to give him a hug.

One week until the new job.  I need to get it together.  It's going to be hard to get things ramped up again.

There were less deaths in the state the past three days, but more cases.  I'm beginning to believe the university and sports will come back

There was a charity golf broadcast over the weekend.  It was surreal.  And Nascar.  And lots of talk of baseball, football, etc.

Will the world slow down after this?  I know several hope so.

Ohhhhh...I got a haircut last week.  It feels so good.  Now if I could find a place to swim.  I sold the third house by the way.

Thanks Bren for the wonderful email.  You lifted my spirits at the end of a long day.

May 21

Doctors appointment yesterday.  Geez he says he doesn't want to see me for 6 months.  What did I say?   Haha, this is a good thing.  The cancer is long behind me and now the visits to the oncologist are spreading out.  I was amazed I have only gained one pound since my last visit.  I thought it would be more.  I miss swimming!

The Governor announced he will relax some things next week.  Outdoor seating at restaurants.  Barber shops open.  Personal training.  I wish I had the money to have my personal trainer again.  I need to watch my funds carefully.

I had a closing implode this week.  I feel so bad for the family.  I really think the lender strung them on.  Got them signed up for a loan they should have passed on.  It's very frustrating.

Dress code for the new job is long sleeve button down shirts.  I don't have many anymore.  I have been wearing golf shirts forever.  Help!!!!  I start next Tuesday.

I really need to clear my head.  Swimming helps me do that.  I used to run to do the same but I can't with my neuropathy.  I wish I owned an elliptical.  Oh well, maybe Santa will bring one.

I miss Survivor!  It ended last week and now my Wednesday nights are empty.  Grrr....

I was re-reading this today and I realized I haven't done a lot of updating to the numbers.  There are 476 cases in Champaign County.  7 people have died and I believe there are 7 in the hospital as well.  They have been testing 500 or so a day in this area and this has resulted in identifying 35 or so new cases a day.

In the state the numbers passed 100,000 infected yesterday and over 4000 deaths.

Also today the University announced this will cost them $167 million.

June 2

Oh my, sorry I haven't posted in two weeks.  It has been different to say the least. First and foremost I started working with the local radio station/newspaper selling advertising.  My intent is to supplement my income and secure benefits.  I feel like I'm starting over.  It's not a bad thing, it is just exhausting.  There are not a lot of people who love cold calling.  While I'm not calling on people I don't know, I am trying to start up a base of business from scratch.  It can be overwhelming for sure. I need patience...and a hug wouldn't hurt either.

The state sort of opened last weekend.  Restaurants can serve outdoors, barbers and hair salons opened, gyms can have outdoor workouts.  This will all work until the heat hits (it was 90 yesterday).  But at least it's a bit better than it was a month ago.

I have been busy in my off hours with selling houses as well.  Wrote an offer last night and had a closing Friday.  Another closing this week and next week as well.  I would just like to build up my savings a bit.

I am two months from paying off my credit cards in total.  Geez, I was so far behind through all of these medical issues.  I hope I never have debt like this again.  You get behind, then it seems like it doesn't matter anymore.  It matters.

A friend of mine lost his 18 year son in a boating accident over the weekend.  I had met the young man at church, but can't say I knew him.  I know his father though.  I can't imagine the horror the family is going through.  Death has been so hard to deal with as there are limited funerals.  I'm not sure you can ever find closure in this kind of tragedy.

One good thing, I swam in the lake last night.  I feel better!

June 8

Monday funday.  Nice quiet weekend.  I had lunch with Elijah, one of my mentees.  We had such a wonderful discussion about the world.  The death of George Floyd has dominated the headlines.  There have been marches, riots, looting.  12 weeks of lock down has certainly affected the response.  I get it, no question.  I just wish there was a better way to affect change in the world.

Week three in the new position.  I'm not sure this is the right thing.  But I'm trying to be patient.  It's very overwhelming for sure.  Talking to new people and learning new things.  This old dog may not be able to learn new tricks.

The virus presses on.  Cases in our state and county are down.  But no sign yet of any kind of cure.  The stock market was way up on Friday.  Encouraging.  And then the reports on 60 minutes Sunday were just as discouraging

The chances of school and sports look good for this year.  The big announcement is supposed to come by next Monday from President Killeen.  I can't wait.

The funeral for the young man was Sunday.  It was broadcast on Facebook.  Many of his friends and family members spoke at the funeral.  His father, Harold, was inspiring.  He spoke to all of Drew's friends talking about how Drew would be with them all forever.  I don't know how he did it.  The courage he showed was totally amazing.  I plan to send him a note recognizing his courage. 

June 19

Wow it has been almost two weeks since my last post. Seriously the days have flown by.  I'm having the feeling this will be a year when I don't remember much of what happened in the summer.  Today we should be having our annual golf outing in Chicago.  We have gotten together with fraternity brothers for more than 40 years.  Always fun to get together.

The university announced they are coming back in the fall.  This is a relief for sure.  Our community needs the students.  I do as well.

Still waiting to see if baseball will be coming back. For now at least pro basketball and football look to be coming back.  Baseball has been negotiating for weeks.  Hard to know if they will come to an agreement.

The cases are going down.  In the local area there are 5 - 10 a day.  Deaths are up to 11.

June 22

Not a terrible weekend.  I was busy with real estate and it wasn't quite as warm. I wish the outdoor pool was open and it would have been nice to swim in the sun.

I got a wonderful note from my friend Brenda.  She is such a calming influence.  She is in the Dallas area and the virus seems to be "Big in Texas"  This week our state should open quite a bit more.  With all of the other open states having increased cases it is a bit scary to think things could accelerate here.  I think we just want to see the curve go down and down.

I'm guessing Frank will love having movie theaters open.  The local pastor gave him a computer yesterday.  As Frank can barely turn a computer on I don't expect this will be a big deal for Frank. The pastor was being gracious so Frank could check his email more often.  However, his skills are limited and since he doesn't retain a lot of short term learning I suspect he will struggle.

Please God, bring us a vaccine

June 25
A nice cool week here.  The numbers are still low.  Nothing major, a party here or there where people get infected. I had a big blow out with the president of the board of the chapter house.  I just get so tired with his lack of prioritizing.  We have so many tough things to face with the fraternity and his cavalier attitude wears me out.  Oh well, I probably crossed the line and insulted him.  It happens

Tomorrow is Phase 4,  Restaurants, gyms, theaters, etc will open.  I hope this makes a difference.  Real estate was down 30% last month.  Not for me, I am having a record quarter.  Next month I will have no credit card debt.  It has been a long road!  Now if I can get the car paid off I'll be down to just a mortgage.

July 1

Groundhog Day....oh my, it just seems like the days are repeating.  I so wish that we could have one "normal" day in the middle of this.  A day to go to the pool and relax.  A day to see my friends and give them a hug.  And most important a day to see my family.  Consensus is that this will go on for more than another year.  Time has moved so quickly in my life, I am ok with this flying by.

The numbers for Illinois continue to drop.  But there are huge spikes in most of the US.  We all fear that our sacrifices of the last three months will be in vain as the virus comes back like a storm.  I just wonder what will happen when the students come back.  Can the university contain it or will it spin out of control?

This month I plan to finally pay off my debt from the cancer.  My credit cards will be empty.  I refinanced some into my home loan and that is still there, but except for my car and mortgage I'll have everything paid off.  Many friends have donated money to help me.  I am truly thankful for my many friends.  I really never expected to have this debt paid.

The new job is ok.  It's really hard to build a book of new clients during the virus.  My real estate business has been strong, but....what happens in the fall.  Geez I just don't know

Oh well, another day.

July 9
I'm still here.  Odd 4th of July for sure.  Frank and I watched the fireworks shown at Urbana Country Club from the car in the south farms.  But we got Disney Plus and watched Mandalorian (Star Wars first of course) and then Hamilton.  Third time for Hamilton.  I think I know what is missing, there is no beautiful tenor solo.  No Bring him Home, or Music of the Night or Maria.  That may be what I miss in this show altogether.

Spiking cases still all over the country.  Hard to imagine school will be able to resume.  However deaths in Illinois were 34 yesterday and have been in this range for a few weeks.  Cases are down in state.  What happens in our little town when the students come back?

My sister started working at WWE for Vince McMahon this week.  Oh my, I miss the old Hulk Hogan days.  I suppose I will need to watch to learn about the new characters.  WWE was Marvel before Marvel movies became the thing.  Super heroes in real life.

Real estate stays busy.  I sold a house this week and put another under contract.  And I will list 3 new houses soon.  I keep thinking the bottom will fall out, but so far...it has just been busy.

Sold my first big deal yesterday at the new job.  More to come I hope.

It's so hot!  Oh my, I miss the community pool.  I swam at the YMCA yesterday.  I'm so happy I got to swim.  You must sign up for lap time online.  The sign ups are full within about 5 seconds of when they go live.  Grrr.....

Can't wait for the weekend.

July 17
I can't believe how fast the time is going by.  A week seems like just a day or two.  Working two jobs keeps me on my toes for sure.  I have been doing better with the radio business.  I have sold a few clients and plan to ad a few more.  Two weeks until I earn health care.  That has been a goal.  And I paid off my credit cards this week.  First time in more than 5 years, pre-cancer days, for sure that I haven't had credit card debt.  Next goal is to pay down my car.

Real estate won't quit.  I have two new clients this week and I think both will buy soon.  I sold two houses in the past week.  I have never been busier.

I am struggling to believe we will play football this year.  The DIA has published the new guidelines.  20% in stadium, no tailgates, etc.  And indoor sports like volleyball will have no crowds.  Look out world, things are changing again.

Rizzo is doing well.  He has had an allergy I think and it has caused him to be out of sorts.

The weather is hot, so much for hot weather killing the virus.  The virus is surging in about 40 states.  Illinois is still under control.  Please stay that way.  Illinois averages about 1000 cases a day and 20-30 deaths.  That is a huge drop.  Locally we average about 7-10 cases a day and about a death a week.  Only 3 local people in the hospital.

Kris is doing well in her role as CFO of WWE.  I'm so proud of her.  I can't wait for her debut in the ring!!

July 22

A very slow week for sure.  Good news is Major League Baseball is back on tv.  I watch a little of the Cubs and White Sox.  It is so odd for the stands to be empty.  I can't imagine I will get used to it.
Work is busy for sure.  Lots of meetings although not a lot of sales yet.  Only two weeks until health care starts.  I won't have a gap, it just won't be a cobra policy.

It's so scary to see the virus explode around the country.  Things are ok here in Illinois.  Less than 100 deaths for the entire week.  But the case load in Champaign is going up.  More in the hospital as well.  We are talking about 30 or so new cases a day the past few days and 10 in the hospital.  Just when I started to think there would be a zero or two.

Busy weekend cleaning and painting the fraternity.  We are making good progress.  It's nice to have something to do.  But terrible there are no trips or shows or special events to mark the time.  The days run together.

I saw today the government has ordered 100 million vaccines.  All we need is for one to be approved. it seems impossible this will go on another year or more.

Two weeks until we may learn something about football.  It's still full speed ahead, however with cases going up nationally it's hard to imagine playing.  I think pro sports will go on.  College?  Hard to say.

What do I know now I did not know 4 months ago?  I know I probably worry too much.  I know I can't go on forever mentoring college students.  I know I need to trust God even more than I have in the past.

July 27

Baseball is back!  I must say I enjoyed watching baseball, although the stands were empty.  I don't quite understand why some put cut outs in the seats.  I suppose it's "cute"  And fan noise is unnecessary as well.  I do like hearing the organ music though and can understand why they players might like some music in the stands as well.

The days drag on, although I have to say that it's better than a few months ago.  We all hope that we will have the vaccine by spring. 

An interesting discussion with Mike Delorenzo who is leading the UI back to school efforts.  Just 4 weeks until the students come back.

I spent the weekend at the fraternity again.  Our punch list is getting shorter all the time.  We may just have it ready by the time school starts, if it does.

Business is good, and since I'm not spending any money I'm getting a bit ahead.  I feel sorry for the folks in Texas, Florida, California.  I would hate to shut down again.  But in the meantime I'm padding my bank account so I can get by for several months.

August 5

A busy week for sure.  A good friend former UI coach Lou Henson passed away.  He was an institution in this town for sure.  Our paths crossed many times over the years and most recently in both our battles with cancer.  He fought the big C for 17 years.  It was a tireless and inspiring fight for sure.

I had a chance to talk to many of Lou's friends as the newspaper was working on a special section for Lou.  It was very nice to catch up.

The football season schedule was announced yesterday.  Will it happen or not?  Who knows?  It looks like it will happen.  Hopefully it will and spirits will be lifted.  

Still crazy in real estate.  I had the closing from hell this past week where everything seemed to go wrong.  Sometimes we really earn our money.  This time I could not be paid enough.

Everyday the local school districts change their minds for back to school.  Today they have decided to go remote for the first quarter.  I would hate to be the decision maker on this project for sure.

Three weeks until UI comes back.  It looks as though 3/4 of classes will be online.  I can't imagine all that time in the residence halls.

August 10

Will they cancel football or not?  I"m guessing it is over for the fall.  The Presidents met over the weekend and reportedly voted 12-2 to end the season.  Disappointing for sure, but I can't say I ever really expected they would play this weekend.  It just seems impossible for everything to get done.

Students started coming back this weekend.  Now that will be the next hurdle.  Will classes meet in person or not?  I"ll be interested to see just how many come back.  I think it will be less for sure.

It was wonderful to watch the PGA tournament this weekend.  The winner was a young man who played at the Univ of California.  Really exciting finish and fun to see a full blown sporting contest.

Baseball continues although some teams can't seem to get healthy.  The Cardinals have only played 5 games, a third of what other teams have played.  Start and stop as players test positive.  

August 12

The fall season has ended.  Bad news for the local economy and all of the people who have businesses who rely on the sports trade.  Who knows what this will mean long term. 

August 17

I finished the work I was doing on the fraternity.  I must say I'm a bit sad to have finished as I have enjoyed spending some time every week with one of my pledge brothers Bill.  He lost his job a few months ago and I know he has enjoyed having someplace to go as well.  The house looks very good.  Not perfect mind you, but a lot better than it looked back in March.  

It has been 5 months.  I can't believe it.  I just feel numb at times.  Not seeing friends regularly, not getting a hug or two.  It's the twilight zone for sure.  When I drive through campus it seems so odd to see so few students.  Normally the international students are back and wandering throughout town.  Not this year.  There are a few for sure, but not a big mass of people for sure.  But I do see some people moving in.

I have about 5 buying clients right now.  That's a good number for August.  I hope the stream continues.  Frank came over on Friday and we watched Greyhound, the Tom Hanks film.   We both enjoyed it very much.

Still plugging away at radio, but wondering how long I want to do both jobs.  With football on hold it seems like a waste.

Oh well, I want to hear some good news.... Got any :)

August 20

This is the normal "move in day" on campus.  It is usually packed and crazy on every block.  Not today.  It feels like a June day when all the students are gone.  This is crazy.

The mayors have banned indoor seating for campus restaurants for three weeks.  They don't want students to congregate.  Also have set 10 person guest limits for apartments, fraternities, etc.  Good luck enforcing this.  What I don't like about this is that students will take their parties indoors where no one will be monitoring the numbers.  I would rather they be outdoors for the obvious reasons.

I fear this experiments is destined for failure.  I hope I am wrong.

August 24

2 positive cases at the fraternity on Sunday, 5 today.  The numbers in town went from 15 to 68.  The students are back.  This is what we expected for sure.  But I was expecting it to be someone else's problem.  Nothing I can do to change this. I just hope it doesn't turn into 20 tonight.

I had a restful weekend though.  No complaints.  

August 25

No update yet on the fraternity.  We are struggling to get people to move into quarantine space.  There were 86 positive tests on campus yesterday and 357 for the last 5 days. I would say this number needs to change don't you think???

I decided yesterday not to to go to NYC for Labor Day.  As much as I want to see my sister and her family I'm just not comfortable with flying, airports, hotels, etc.  I'll wait a while longer. 

August 31

A relatively quiet weekend for me.  I did show a few homes and continue to negotiate a deal for another but all in all it was a quiet weekend.  I did enjoy watching the BMW Championship that was played at Olympia Fields CC.  I have played that course a few times in my life and walked it during the US Open in 2003 but I must say it wasn't as familiar as I would like. 

The Covid battle continues for the fraternity.  16 positives in a week.  I don't know how I would respond if I was a parent.  

Hints that Big Ten football may be back in November/December.  I hope this is true but who knows.

I was planning to go visit my sister this weekend.  I feel uneasy with airports and hotels still so I decided not to go.  I'll miss the hug.

Speaking of hugs, we had church outdoors under the front awning on Sunday.  It was wonderful to see everyone.

Sept 3

The UI Chancellor announced yesterday that the campus was going to freeze for two weeks.  No large meetings, no gatherings, no social, just go to school, grocery store and home.  Students who do not comply could be suspended or worse.  Things are getting serious.  Over 700 cases on campus.  The one thing that is not working right yet is the testing.  Results were supposed to come back in hours and they are taking days.  It doesn't work to have lots of students in one place, one be positive, but then not get results for 2 days.  If we had results in hours the people could separate quicker.

Big call tonight from the Director of Greek Affairs.  I'm not sure what else she needs to tell us since everything is locked down.  I guess follow the rules or else.

The university disbanded the Board of Fraternity Affairs, the sanctioning committee I have chaired the past two years.  I will miss working with the students on the committee.  And..I will selfishly miss the access it gave me to campus officials.  Oh well, it had been in my mind I was getting to the point of stepping down anyway.

A big box was on my doorstep from my friend Brenda!  I'll wait until Tuesday to open it.

22 positive cases for the first two weeks at the house.  Very frustrating.  The cleaning company won't go in to clean since there are still active cases.  I can't win.  I have a spray gun coming soon and that will help.  The kids are doing the right things I believe, it's just not a good environment to live in to prevent the virus.

Sept 8

Happy Birthday to me.  So here is my question. If I decide to stick with just the real estate job how can I fill my time?  So much of my volunteer work is hands on and as you know...that isn't possible now.  Said another way, how can I avoid boredom?

It was a quiet weekend.  A very nice dinner with friends from church and my brother last night.  I need more of these kinds of things.

Two years until medicare.  Geez, the time is dragging.  My right calf seems to be swelling.  I think it may be a blood clot.  I had this once before and it went away.  My neuropathy isn't getting better or worse, it just is. 

It was a bit chilly this morning.  Not terrible, just chilly.  I am not looking forward to winter at all.

Up to 26 positives.  But 6 are negative again.  So the numbers are dropping.  10 more days of university lockdown.

September 9

A very quiet day yesterday.  I had two zoom calls last night so that kept me in line.  Two more positives yesterday.  Then I find out a group of 4 who were positive decided to run out for beer Sunday night.  Guess what, they were underage, they were positive, they were in a no alcohol period for rush.  I do not think things will look good for them.

I am running out of steam on dealing with these virus issues.  I better just come to grips with it.

Ohhhh, I opened the big box.  A wonderful UI shirt, a few masks, a box of 1957 candy! (it's so fun to see the things I grew up with)  and a few day planners. I was just thinking the other day I should go back to using day planners.  Thank you Brenda xoxo

Sept 14

A rather calm weekend.  I watched a little sports here and there.  I even watched Notre Dame football.  That rarely happens haha.  A no hitter for the Cubs.  That makes you feel like sports are back.  I missed it though. I watched the first half of the Bears game and then went to the office.

Two houses sold in the past week. And I think I may have another to sell this week.  Oh my, I wonder what God has in store for me.  I pray about whether it is real estate or radio sales.  I suppose I need to open my eyes and see he wants me to stay in real estate. 

I'm just worried about health care is all.  Grrr....it didn't used to be so hard

Speaking of God, another very nice outdoor service at SUMC and then lunch with Vera, Don and Shirley.  Such a nice way to spend the day

Today may be the day the B1G decides to bring back football.....or not.......................

The plan for basketball is coming this week as well.

Cases down to 20 on the total campus.  #31 in the fraternity.  The curve is certainly flattening on campus.

September 17

Are you ready for some Football?  It's amazing but football is back and starting on October 24.  And basketball is coming along just as fast.  This was a PR nightmare for the B1G office.  But this too will pass.  The campus lifted the lock down yesterday.  Groups of 10 or less only.  Talk about small parties :)

The numbers are going down.  Things seem to be getting better.  Although no seats will be sold at the games but at least they will be broadcast.

September 22

Fall is here.  Geez, what happened to summer?  It seems like it was yesterday that the virus hit.  Today is the first day that there are no positives in the chapter house.  Finally.  Hopefully we can keep it under control for the rest of the year.  Now I worry about the guys having a party and getting caught.  

Planning to go to Florida for Christmas.  I can't wait to see family.

Things are slow in the radio biz.  Too slow for me.  I just don't know what a good direction should be there.

September 24

Maybe just maybe the house on Peppermill will close today.  We have had a month delay on this one.  Extremely frustrating.  

Also three new cases at the fraternity house.  We were down to one case and then a bit of a resurgence.  We are going to try a virtual initiation tonight.  I hope this works.  The guys managed to get 45 new pledges.  This is a miracle.  Figuring out what out what new member education will look like is our next hurdle.

September 29

Here we are another few days into this and the sun keeps coming up and going down.  I have no real complaints.  I am deciding now, once and for all if this two full time jobs makes sense.  The real estate business has been so good.  I'm thinking two extra sales next year will pay for health care.  If I buckle down and go back to the basics I think this is realistic, even on top of a great year this year.

Once again I gave up on the Bears and half and didn't watch the end.  They came back to win.  I'll be watching in the future.   Baseball playoffs start tonight.  Hockey ended last night.  How is it possible hockey ended in September?  I wonder if it will be back in the spring.  

One of my idiot friends announced the virus will start winding down after November 3.  Yep, this is just a political game.  Tell that to the million people around the world who have lost loved ones.  Some people are so stupid it's just impossible to acknowledge their presence.  

I do not like early darkness.  I love May, June and July when the sun is up until 8 or later.  I really don't like October - January at all.  I wish I was in Florida or Texas or even Kentucky or Tennessee.  

UI football starts in 3 weeks. Ha, this is when the season is nearly over.

The case rate is around 35 a day in town.  It has slowed considerably. The death rate in the state is also much lower.  Let's hope that cold weather doesn't change things

Fraternity rate up to 38.  I imagine it will be all the kids by Thanksgiving.  I'm just happy we have no serious symptoms.

Played "spinner"  with Don and Vera and Shirley on Saturday night.  Such a wonderful visit.  

October 5

Another weekend, and....not much happened.  I have to chuckle, a few months ago I was complaining because I was too busy.  Now, I'm just taking it easy and working to fill the days.  I have watched more football, great game between Oklahoma and Iowa State Saturday, ISU upsets OK!, pro football, grrrr....where is your offense Bears, and baseball.  The Central division dropped all 4 entrants into the playoffs including the Cubs.  

But....I think I will still watch more baseball even without the Cubs or Sox.   

I listened another John Maxwell book on leadership.  I enjoy his thoughts and I always get a few ideas.  His books are often an accumulation of cliche's that he weaves together into a message.  Sometimes the messages are good.  This message reminded me I haven't done a great job of empowering the students I mentor lately.  I need to do better.  

I really need to begin to find people to take over for me at the fraternity.  I love being involved but I really don't want to me the "decision maker" much longer.  It's getting harder to connect and zoom meetings don't really help.

A nice dinner with Shirley Saturday.  Her house sold on Friday and this was a nice celebration.  Although I must say one of my favorite restaurants, Silvercreek, appears to be cutting corners.  Normally their baked goods are amazing, but this time they were just ok.

Trump has been mocking the virus, despite the fact he is positive.  I wonder what is next from him.  

October 12

A board meeting for the fraternity on Saturday.  Our president announced his resignation.  He sent a 4 page letter with all of his accomplishments along with 45 pages of supporting photos and documents.  You would think he was trying to be nominated for an office instead of resigning.  All I have to say is don't let the door hit you in the butt.  Self serving is an understatement.  But, this is all I will say on the topic.

Things in general are ok.  I've been trying to switch to working just one full time job and the radio station doesn't want me to leave.  They want me to manage new accounts.  I'm not sure I want to stay on their schedule.  However I'm still here.

This week marks the 6 month anniversary for the virus.  60 minutes had a few interesting stories last night on the vaccine and treatments in the works.  I am beginning to think in 6 more months we will begin to have a more normal world.  The reports last night offered masks might be around at least another year.

There was a great story on Jon Bon Jovi. on CBS Sunday Morning yesterday.  I'll never forget Farm Aid at Memorial Stadium in 1985.  The first act to play at 8 AM was Jon Bon Jovi.  I was back stage after he performed and he commented "there are more people at this stadium than I have played to collectively in my whole life!"   He was flying about 4 feet off the ground for sure.

Cases on campus continue to drop.  I think there were 10 new cases yesterday.  At it's peak in August there were 200 cases a day.   And the community continues to be lower.  State numbers were on an uptick over the weekend.  

October 19

I can't believe it has been a week since I posted.  This week flew by.  Cases are rising throughout the country as people move inside.  No surprise here.  I can't say I have don't much exciting.  I watched "The Morning Show" on Apple TV.  Love this series with Renee Witherspoon and Jennifer Aniston.  And also loved "The Trial of the Chicago 7" on Netflix.  Such great television right now.  I keep waiting for the well to go dry on new shows but so far the networks keeps producing. 

Had a wonderful Zoom call with the pledges and two of our alums, Bob Dudley and Chris Perry.  Bob is retired CEO of BP Oil.  He is a fascinating presenter and offered the kids some great advice.  This too will pass!

Lots of house showings in the past week.  Still working two jobs....grrrr....I need to fix this.

Had a wonderful fund raiser at the church.  Folks purchased pumpkins, then professionally painted and decorated them.  Then had a drive through showing where people could buy the pumpkins.  All in all about $8000 was raised for Thanksgiving food baskets.  A true blessing 

October 26

Was there a reason that we wanted B1G Football back?  Geez, we were swamped this past weekend by Wisconsin.  Nothing really good to say about the team at all.  The offense was in neutral.  The defense had a few moments but nothing really extended.  Wisconsin is very good.  I think Ohio State and Michigan are very good as well.  But the Illini are not good at all.  

Another Zoom call with an alum and the pledges.  Mark Filip this time.  Everyone enjoyed it I think..  Mark was Deputy Attorney General under Bush and then Acting Attorney General for Obama.  He told some interesting stories about working for the White House. 

Television seems to be filling shows with game shows.  Supermarket Sweep was on last night.  Haha, just as dumb as it was thirty years ago.  And and interview with Trump and Biden.  This was the interview that Trump walked out on.  Hard to imagine how someone can be so negative.

There is a chill in the air.  I'm going to restock on pullovers and sweaters. It's funny how pullovers and sweaters just all of the sudden need replacing.  I think in part it's because you don't wear them every day and therefore don't pay close attention except for the beginning of the colder weather. 

 November 2

One day until the election.  I wonder if we will know the winner tomorrow.  Most people think not.  Today the restaurants will be shut down.  The region is above the average for positive tests, 8.1% and needs to have three days below 6.5% before the governor will re-open indoor seating.  

This may be the death blow for many of our local restaurants.  I heard the last time indoor seating shut down the businesses were living around the 30% of sales number.  That was in warmer weather.  I think this will be worse.

It will be a nice warm week.  Thank goodness.  I wish I had a house with a backyard so I could just let Rizzo out in cold weather.  But....I walk him everyday.  Of maybe he walks me :)

We are trying to figure out Christmas.  We are planning to go to Florida, but maybe it's just not a wise thing to do.  Playing this one day by day.  

November 5

Still no election news.  Looks like a win for Biden but many votes still to count.  I hope people don't protest.

The weather has been so nice this week.  I wish it was like this all the time.  A few more days are in store. 

I'm thinking tomorrow may be my last day in radio but they don't want me to leave.  I love the people here, I just don't want to cold call is this covid world.  

Cases are up dramatically across the state.  The restaurants shut down indoor service Monday.  Triple digit cases in the community, but the campus is under control.  Really no indication as to what is driving cases.

November 9

Biden wins.  Of course you know that.  It took until Saturday for the election to be decided.  While I think Trump would do a better job of restoring the economy I believe that Biden will do a better job with dealing with the virus.  And for me, that is more important right now.  

Frank decided he must have a new couch on Friday.  I must say his current couch was over 50 years old, so it was certainly time for an update.  We got that done for him and I'm glad we did.

The weather has been beautiful.  In the 60's and 70's.  I enjoyed a few restaurant meals with outdoor seating before the close down for the winter.  I feel awful for the waitresses and kitchen staffs.  I hope indoor dining comes back fast, but I'm not optimistic.

Announcement yesterday we may see a vaccine by end of the month.  I hear often "would you take the vaccine?"  HELL YES.  I'm not worried about it.

No updates on holidays yet.  My cousins son Brandon texted me last night about trying to get together in January.  We have been on  a few mission trips and other trips.  Maybe we can make it work.

Lost another great brother, Bruce "The Beast" Travares.  Beast is another dedicated fraternity adviser who I always enjoyed spending time with.  His heart is huge and his passion for Phi Psi is unequaled.  RIP Brother. 

That's two significant brothers in just a few weeks.  Another, Shannon Price, former national president, passed away after battling colon cancer.  Our diagnosis and battles were almost identical.  He fought hard but wasn't as fortunate at I.  But for the grace of God. 

November 16

I made the big move and left the radio station.  The reason was simple.  Trying to build a base of business in a pandemic is mind altering.  It was very difficult to call of people who had suffering businesses and ask them for money.  Other can do this, I struggled.  

So I am totally committed to real estate now.  I feel my prospecting time will be better spent in an industry I know better.  You might say it was fun while it lasted.

We initiated our two pledge classes last night.  Social distancing and mask wearing was totally enforced.  I'm praying I don't get the virus from it.  It was stupid on my part to cross paths with so many students, but I feel strongly with all of the UI testing they are most likely safer to be around than the general public.

Dustin Johnson wins the Masters.  It was so different without the crowds but still fun to watch.  And Illinois won...what?  That's impossible.  

I'm staying home for Thanksgiving and probably Christmas as well.  Word on another vaccine working.  Some day this too will pass.  

Churches are shut down again.  I'm sure gyms and salons will follow.  I got my hair cut Friday just in case.  

November 25

Happy Thanksgiving Eve.  I hope everyone has there stockings hung above the fireplace for Tom Turkey!  I know I do.  

Well college basketball returns today after 9 months.  We may be really good this year so there is great anticipation.  I'm working today and tomorrow at the game.  I hope I get a glimpse of the team.  

No big plans for the holiday.  Dinner tomorrow with Jim Acheson and Bonnie. That will be nice.  And Frank has dislocated his hip and is having trouble walking.  I think it will be time for another rebuild of the hip.

Busy at work but no contracts.  Grrr..  I have several buyers but none finding the right house.  I'm keep plugging away.  I set a bold goal of $5 million next year.  That is possible.

Great news from Doc Rowland.  All blood tests clear, no sign of cancer.  Another 6 months before I see him again.

Time to start getting ready for Christmas.  It will be another Christmas at home.  The virus continues to spread.  Over 1000 cases active in CU.  And deaths up to 46.  Local hospital at 69 cases..

The governor locked things down last week and cases are dropping.  We need more of the same.

November 30

Thanksgiving was quiet but nice.  I ate ate with two friends, Jim and Bonnie.  Frank did not join us as he is having hip issues.  I worked at State Farm two days.  Only saw a few moments of the game since I was in the hallway and then in the east gate.  

No contracts signed in three weeks.  Grrr...I am working hard and am sure something will change soon,.  

There is snow falling. I don't know why I seem colder this year.  I think it is because I'm not exercising as much as I want.  I am struggling to get in the pool with the limited access.  I will try again tonight to get a time.  I want to change my time to the afternoon going forward so I can swim and then take the dog out before sun goes down.

Cases are stabilizing.  Deaths went over 60 in Champaign and cases are over 10,000.  The football game was cancelled Saturday when Ohio State pulled out.  

On the news last night it looked like perhaps we can plan to be vaccinated by April although I would expect masks to be worn until at least next September. 

Trump still thinks he won.  I suspect he is changing the locks to the White House and will not turn over the keys

December 8

Two days away from the drug companies going to the FDA for approval of the vaccine.  Next week we should see the beginning of rolling it out in the USA.  It started today in Britain.  I am guessing life as we know if won't change much until July or so.  Mask, social distancing, etc still in effect.

I sold a house yesterday.  I have another 5 or so buyers ready to buy, they just need to find the right house.  Inventory is so low in our area, lowest ever.  Demand is still strong.

I have finished my Christmas shopping, although I'm still waiting for a couple of things to arrive.  I hope to get things in the mail by Saturday at the latest.

Tonight, Illinois vs. Duke at Duke.  We will see if we are for real then.  The Ohio State Michigan game was cancelled a few minutes ago.  Who would have thunk?  

State Farm Center let us know there will not be security work until there are at least "some" fans. I don't think that will be for awhile. 

I miss live theater.  I was thinking...if I could see one show live right now..which one would I see?   Maybe Phantom. 

December 15

Oh what a week this was.  Let's see, we beat Duke at Cameron Indoor Arena.  Lost to Northwestern in football, lost to Mizzou in basketball in the braggin rights game, and then Lovie Smith was fired.  Oh my.  Talk about an up and down week.

It was time for Lovie.  He is a great human being.  He was great with the athletes and staff.  But he just couldn't break down the recruiting barriers.  I'm surprised.  I thought doors would open for him and the staff.  But they didn't.  Hard decision, but one that needed to happen.  Who is next?  I don't know.  I hope it is someone young with lots of energy and ties to Illinois and/or the B1G conference.  

The temps are dropping.  My feet and fingers are number than normal.  I think it is the weather.  I haven't been in the pool in a week and a half.  First I hurt my back.  Nothing serious, but painful.  Just a twitch.  And with the reduced schedule at the Y it's hard to get a reservation.  GRRR

I got all my packages out this week.  Still working on cards but will be done with those by Friday I think.  I seem to spend more every year.

Had a wonderful dinner at Sunsinger Sunday in their tents.  There are lots of tents and igloos and private outdoor dining spaces built.  I don't know how these are safer than indoors but who am I to judge.   There are 3 restaurants defying the carry out only rules.  Good for them.  I think people should be able to make up their own minds on dining choices. 

Cases are dropping even though deaths are rising.  Students leave Friday for a month although maybe half of them are already home.  I hope after the holidays our Governor relaxes the rules.  

Vaccines arrived yesterday.  The beginning of the end we hope!

Who wants to be a Millionaire question from Sunday - In front of the Virginia Theater in Champaign IL is a statue of Roger Ebert giving what hand signal?    We all know the answer and so did Cedric the Entertainer.

The good news for Frank, his hips are fine, just some muscle issues.  Better news for Frank.  Someone bought the Savoy 16 theater and it will open in two weeks or when the Gov says it is ok.

December 22

A bright new day!  Illinois has a new football coach.  I'm in no way surprised by the choice.  Brett Bielema is a terrific choice for us in my mind.  Knows the conference, knows the state.  I'm happy for sure.  

 

Getting ready for Christmas.  I am going to have Frank over for Christmas again this year.  Nothing exciting planned although he will be thrilled that I bought HBO Plus so he can watch Wonder Woman.

The vaccine is coming.  Several thousand doses in town.  I'm hoping to get the shot by April 1.

Real estate is staying busy.  I'm not complaining at all.

  

December 28

The Christmas Holiday was, well, different to say the least.  It just doesn't seem like Christmas.  In part because there was minimal snow.  But mostly because it was just kind of bland.  No family gathering.  No Christmas Eve service with candle lighting.  No Christmas movies in the theater.  It just wasn't the same.  

It wasn't terrible mind you.  I feel better about Christmas this year than last when I was a bit depressed.  I was going through a bit of "feel sorry for myself depression."  Work the previous year was just ok.  I was feeling some stress for the next year.  And overall needed to figure some things out.

As bad as 2020 was for some, for me it was my best year every business-wise.  So I don't feel that stress this holiday at all.

Ok back to Christmas.  Frank came over for a few days.  We watched several movies, North by Northwest, Wonder Woman 84, Midnight Sky and Soul  All were good movies.

I cooked my sister's breakfast casserole, delicious!!  And I picked up dinner from Harvest Market.  It was wonderful as well.  

Another wonderful gift from my dear friend Brenda.  The theme, 'something to warm me up on a cold winter night/'  In the box were soups, soup spoons, a soup cooking pot, ladle, and all I needed to make perfect soup!  Such a creative and thoughtful gift!  

New Years' is coming.  We can discuss this more later!

January 12

I see my last post is not here.  I must have forgotten to save it.  Oh well.  I can't remember what I posted!  Haha, It was probably the most insightful thing yet.

We were sickened last week by the Trump supporters who stormed the capital.  Sad for sure.  Yet another overblown response to the frustrations of the world.  The one thing for certain is most are glad the POTUS will be a new person next week.

It's chilly here in CU. I can't wait for the warmer weather.  It has been 10 months since I started this blog.  I thought it would be a few weeks.

Vaccines are slowly rolling out.  This week 75 years and older are getting it.  Next week they will start 65 and older with preexisting conditions.  I'm waiting patiently. 

No real slowdown in cases in our area.  It's not terrible but not open yet either.  Deaths are about 90 in the county and cases are anywhere from 60 - 130 a day.

New refrigerator tomorrow.  And taxes due on Friday.  Expensive week.

January 18

Somehow I made it through last week and didn't go into debt!  I have never spent more in a day than I did last Friday.  Taxes!  Well, it's is due to a great year last year in real estate. I can afford it for once.

I sold a house on Saturday! I wrote two offers, sold one house.  I need to sell more in the coming weeks.

I believe God will not give me more until I prove I can be a good steward of what I have.  This past year I have really come to grips with being a much better steward.  I'm down to only my mortgage and my auto debt.  This is the best place I have been in for over 30 years.  

Today may be the day our region drops to level one.  That means open restaurants, gyms, theaters, etc.  Maybe even some fans at the basketball games.  We have hit a rough spot in basketball.  We look like we don't care.  I think the players may be suffering from fatigue from the covid protocols.  Early morning testing, practice, no friends, family.  It can't be easy.  

It's Martin Luther King Day.  One thing that has happened this year is that people are super sensitive about inclusion and diversity.  I think I'm already sensitive about it.  I think most of my friends are.  My issue with all of the diversity training is that the people who need to hear the message don't attend the training.  I just feel this is a case of constant preaching to the choir.

Wednesday Biden takes office.  The past two weeks have led many of my republican friends to shift their allegiances.  Many are tired of the boring messages that Trump has beaten into the ground.  This will be a major shift in American politics.  The red majority of rural America is often built on a foundation of morality.  This foundation won't tolerate the childishness of the current leaders.  

January 19

Sure enough, the region moved to level one today.  That means open restaurants, theaters, gyms, etc.  I can't wait.  Especially getting in the pool on a regular basis.  The pool has been open but with anywhere from 2-10 reservations per hour is has been nearly impossible to get in the water.  Add to that the Y dropped the 4 and 5 PM swim hours, which was my favorite time, and I have not been swimming as much as I need to.  I have time today at 3.

January 25

Here we are another week closer to the end of this.  I'm really thinking that while most of Champaign may be vaccinated by mid-summer, we still may have masks and gathering restrictions in the fall.  I certainly hope not.  Had a nice virtual fundraiser for the theater company.  Maybe we will have a show in the fall.

Numbers continue to improve in Illinois and in Champaign.  Hospitalizations are going down, hopefully, a reflection of the 65 and older crowd getting vaccinated.  It has been about 4 weeks since the shots started.  I think that will result in fewer people in the hospitals.  

I'm hoping to get a shot in two weeks!

Real estate remains good.  Sold a house last weekend.  I have about 10 ready to buy if we could just find the right house.

Movies opened this weekend although we did not make it.  And the robot, Tom Brady, somehow led Tampa Bay to the Super Bowl.  I do not believe it.

I had an officer retreat over the weekend.  It was great to meet with the guys in person.  Only one of them HAS NOT had the virus.  Seems like a good place to hang out.  School started today again.  Pretty low key compared to last semester.

February 2

We played Iowa again at home and beat them.  Rewind a year.  That was the last home game before covid.  Things are relatively good this week.  Busy with real estate.  I have 18 buyer clients who are approved and ready to write an offer.  If only there were more homes on the market.  Interest rates continue to be great, 2.5%.

I had almost a pre-covid normal weekend.  Busy from 8 AM - 8 PM.  Saw the new Tom Hanks movie at the theater with Frank.  Small crowd but nice to see the show on the big screen.

It is going to get really cold in CU next week.  Brrrr.....Winter is coming.  I wish I was headed someplace warm.  But it looks like the cold stuff will only be here a week.

Super Bowl Sunday.  Bill and Frank are coming over.  Bill is the fraternity brother who helped restore the house this past summer.  Fun time!

February 8

Buccaneers win!  It's not possible that Tom Brady took the Bucs to the championship.  They looked so average when they lost to the Bears.  A fun night with pledge brother Ache and Frank.  

Surprise.  I got an email from the YMCA where Frank works that he was eligible to get a Covid vaccine.  Since he cleans in the daycare area of the building he qualified for the shot.  So I called to make an appointment.  While on the line the nurse politely asked what my status was.  I told her and she scheduled me for a shot.  So.....Saturday Frank and I had round 1 of the vaccine.  Pfizer in case you are keeping track.  That is a relief.  

Sold two houses last week and expect to sell another today.  It must be June already!

I'm hoping once I get my second shot that I can just go somewhere and relax.  Maybe a trip to Florida is in order.  This could be an early April warm-up for me!

Cases are slowing down in town and the infection rate is dropping fast.  There is a light at the end of the tunnel.  About 16% of residents have one shot, 4% both.  The needle is starting to move.

Febuary 15

Happy Valentines Day.  Today is half price candy day at Walgeens.  Who doesn't love that?  It's so cold, -20 wind chill.  Sorry Rizzo, no long walks for you.  And did I tell you I swam yesterday?  A good 45 minute swim, indoors of course haha.

Cold all over though.  From here to there!  And Everywhere.  American Idol back last night and the Voice tonight!  I need some music

Too cold to sell houses but not complaining.  I have 5 under contract and more coming.  I have been working on my social media.  B1G Network brother Mike O'Neill will be giving me lessons tomorrow :)

Stay warm!1

February 21

We had 11 inches and life went on.  Maybe the mail stopped for a day.  And Amazon never stops.  Big story in WSJ on my sister and WWE last week.  So funny to think of her and Vince McMahon in the same room.  Covid shot two on Saturday. I'm ready for that .

I gave up "Candy Crush" for lent.  May seem trivial but I am saving time and spending lots of time working on social media, videos and blogs.  It's already paying dividends as I've added 5 new clients in a week.  Really this strategy is "how am I going to grow my business after the current sales rush ends.  

I'm learning lots about social media, video editing, etc.  I think I have always had a good sense of "production/shot selection" but I have gotten a lesson from one of my former mentees on editing.  

It is warming up this week, 50 tomorrow.

I got a good swim and walk in yesterday.  I'm hoping for more of the same every day this week.

Busy day, I taught two classes, has a zoom call and a house showing.  Who says things are slow?

Closing in on 25% of county residents have gotten their vaccines.  Cases, hospital stays, etc all dropping quickly.

Heard from two sources the UI is trying to get all students/staff vaccinated by May 15.  If that happens I think the county will be pretty much covid free.

March 1

I have both vaccine shots!  I got #2 on Saturday.  Other than slight tenderness in my arm, I felt fine.  I fact I swam Sunday for 45 minutes.  It's a huge relief.  Both Frank and I are set for now.

And....I made reservations to go to Florida at the end of the month.  Taking Brandon and his girlfriend.  I'm eager to be out of town a few days.

Illinois Basketball continues to win.  The B1G tourney starts in a week.  This will be the anniversary fo the world shutting down.

J&J had their vaccine approved.  There will be millions of more doses available now.  

Nothing else new to report.  The business remains strong although we are short on listings! 

March 8

B1G Tourney week.  Three huge wins in a row for the Illini will likely land us a #1 seed in the NCAA.  The Illini were practicing at Hinkle Field House a year ago this week when they got the word the season was over.  I'm planning on going to the game on Saturday thanks to our Team Leader Carol.

I have truly been swamped the last few weeks.  I only wish there were more houses on the market.  I have far more buyers than there are homes.  I hope my clients are patient.

Closing today on 611 E. Oregon, Urbana.  I have had this house listed for 3 years.  A beautiful 100 old home built by the town lumberman...thus beautiful woodwork throughout.  It took three years but we finally found the right buyer.

Only 14 cases in CU yesterday out of 10000 cases.  The totals are falling fast.  I heard only 2 positive cases at the UI yesterday.  We got this!

Two weeks until vacation!  The weather is warming nicely here.  Morning walks are back in order.  Rizzo is happy.

March 16

Let the madness begin!  I went to Indy for the B1G semi finals.  Fun day and great to see Lucas Oil Stadium.  I hope I get back there in the next three weeks!  Illinois #1 seed.  Fun for all in CU and for all of my alumni friends.  

Hard to believe it has been 16 years since our last trip to the final four.  Hopefully, we are in for a return trip.  The team is there and locked down until they win it all or lose.  This is certainly a bright spot in a difficult year.

One year anniversary since the lock down.  Things are certainly better around town.  Less panic, reduced cases and hospital stays.  We are back to where we were in July, about 2.0 infection rate and about 20 new cases county wide a day. 

I'm going to Florida Monday.  A trip with cousin Brandon and his gf.  Bradon is my cousin Dana's son, he is 20 and has gone on two mission trips with our group.  I can't wait to be with family.  We will see June for at least a meal.

Happy St. Patricks Day.  I don't see any green beer on the horizon. I'll be ok!

I sold Lovie Smith's condo yesterday.  That is two former coaches who's houses I have sold after being fired.  Turnover is good for my business!

March 29

No post last week because....I was in Florida last week.  It was wonderful to see and hug family.  For the most part, I would say I didn't see anything out of the ordinary in Florida.  Most were respectful, wearing masks, and socially distancing.  I suspect that all is mostly under control.  There were certainly more people in the airport and on the planes than I expected.  

But people wore masks at theme parks, on city streets and stores, and about wherever they gathered.  In fact, I felt I had a mask on more hours of the day in Florida than I do in CU.

It was great to see family, June, Cheryl, Tom, Karen, Brandon.  It has been too long.

We lost in the second round of the NCAA.  I think we were outcoached.  It hasn't happened much, but I think this time it was true.  Also, I'm thinking we coveted the B1G trophy too much.  That happens with teams who are inexperienced in post-season play.  

I hope we will learn and do better next year.

April 5

National championship Monday.  Grrrrr, I was hoping we would be playing this day.  Oh well, from November on the top two teams were Baylor and Gonzaga so it's only appropriate they are playing.

The S. Africa variant seems to be spreading in Illinois.  New cases and new hospitalizations.  Not serious in our area.  Starting next week anyone who wants a shot can get one.  Over 65% if seniors have gotten vaccinated.  Several of my friends haven't.  Idiots. 

Still busy with real estate.  Lots of new customers only not enough houses.

April 15

The virus is creeping back.  Case numbers are growing a bit each day.  One thing I'm hearing is that anti-bodies for people who have had the virus tend to wear off after 3 months or so.  So some are getting it again, and the second time around it's been worse. Glad I have my shots

Crazy busy in real estate.  It's not unusual for there to be 5-10 offers on a house.  Grrr.....I haven't had a contract yet this month.  I have many clients who can't move fast.  

Wrestlemania was last week.  Kris' first WWE event.  I think it went well. 

All is good as we start month 14 of the virus. 

April 26

Well, good news for the fraternity.  They won three awards, Outstanding Membership Development, 2nd in Scholarship and .....drum roll, Outstanding Chapter.  The first time we have even won this award.  After all the headaches it is a nice reward.  

Oh, and I won Best Chapter Adviser, but if ever there was a year when the players made the coach look good this is the year.  

As I have documented earlier they did a remarkable job pivoting into a virtual recruiting and new member program.  I'm very proud

Sister Kris turned 50 this past weekend.  This is not possible..... I'm sure she has passed me in age.

I need to work out more.  I am just too busy to have a routine although I have been good about walking twice a day.

The Oscars were last night.  I watched it all but felt disconnected since I didn't see many of the movies.  I love the Oscars, but not so much yesterday.  

Cases are falling again.  About 50% of locals have at least one shot.  I suspect by July 1 we will have herd immunity.

May 3

Crazy....that's it.  I have written 4 offers in the past 24 hours and may write 2 or 3 more in the next 24.  The market is insane.  People.....this is not the only chance you will ever have to buy a house.

Oh well, it will slow down and I'll wish is was this crazy again.

Played golf on Saturday, this was really fun.  Two alumni brothers came down and we played in an outing.  Hard to beat.  

Virus?  More of the same.  I wish people were as excited about getting the vaccine as they are about buying houses.  The virus would be gone.

I heard earlier today one of my looney friends had the virus in April.  Funny, she was a take off all your clothes and wash them in bleach Covid Zombie.  

May 26

Oh my, a month since I posted.  It is nuts here.  What a month!  I have written 15 offers in the past 15 days.  Half of them are cash.  And so far only 3 are accepted.   I heard about a guy in Austin who paid 30% more than list for a house and then bought the sellers their next home.  Oh my.  My own condo has gone up 35% in value in just the past 3 months.  It's the wild, wild, west.  I'm doing fine though.  I am just forcing myself to take days off, playing golf, enjoying friends.  It keeps me sane.  I had a wonderful trip to Staunton last Friday and played golf with two college roommates.  A trip to one of their farms and a cookout afterward was the icing on the cake.  What a joy..  Monday I went to Carbondale on our mission trip advanced scouting trip.  Spent the day with three close friends I have been on a dozen trips with.  Again...total joy.  We all need to stop.....and smell the roses.  Daisies will do too.  

Perhaps one of the highlights was listening to Tom Hanks read The Dutch House.  I finally broke down and signed up for Audible.  My friend Brenda recommended this book to me when it came out and I waited for the library to get it.  It never came in audio book, so I got it on Audible.  Another total Joy.  I could listen to Hanks read the phone book.  And of course, the story is wonderful.  I'm going to replace my Pandora background music when I walk with Audible.  So please recommend books.  

A full barrage of annual test for cancer last week....yawn.....all normal :)  I see the oncologist today.  My only concern is that my ankles and knees are swelling.  Could be some added weight I'm carrying or it could be something else.  I'll ask.

You know I'm sure the chapter was named best chapter at UIUC.  Also second and scholarship and first in member development.  Proud papa here.  I was awarded top chapter adviser, but this is truly a case of the team carrying the coach to victory.  But still first time ever for all awards.

I want to go see a national park or two in August.  Any suggestions?  I want to go with one of my mentees, who is a senior now in college, and one of my cousin's kids.  I really want Yosemite but one has been there extensively.  Your opinion is welcome.

The family is good,  Kris had her first Wrestlemania and seems to be loving the environment.  Frank is struggling, largely because he can't see people as much as he likes.  He works at the YMCA 5 days a week, but seems to be regressing again.  More depression.  But he is still living on his own for now.

Nothing else to report for now! 

December 17

20 months into the pandemic.  Time for an update.  Many things are more normal but many are not.  The virus is still raging in the world.  Maybe 70% of Americans are vaccinated.  Hospitals are still crowded but a doctor told me 98% of patients are not vaccinated.  Amazing the stupidity of so many.  Public events are happening everywhere although masks are present/but not always worn.  Masks are present in stores, restaurants.  Still required in classes, but in K-12 and university.  

I taught classes at Parkland this fall.  My students were not only masked but all vaccinated.  Still 3 came down with Covid during the terms

I have my three shots.  Note: Carle Hospital has already calendared shot #4 for me in April.  I'm sure they are on track in suggesting the need for regular boosters.

I'm traveling to NYC and then New Orleans in the next two weeks.  I'm not concerned at all.  In fact I had a "cold" two weeks ago with a sore throat.  I suspect maybe it was Covid.  No serious symptoms at all but since then I have heard from friends who had similar symptoms, were tested and were positive.  I sort of hope that I did have it and have extra anti bodies. 

Cases in Champaign County have crept above 2000 today.  222 deaths.  We were down to 300 cases just 6 weeks ago.  32 in the hospital.  Most cases are 30 and under.  

I suspect more of the same for the next 6 months.  We are still blended virtual/in person for both Rotary and church.  I don't see this changing...maybe this is where we are and will be forever.

I have been to three events in the past two weeks that would be deemed superspreaders.  Parties/fundraisers etc.  Plus basketball games as well.  Most events are pretty much mask free.